GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE

GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE

To everyone who is married or are just getting ready to marry, you must know that:

  • Every marriage has a price to pay
    Everyone you marry has a dark history
    Every marriage has its own challenges
    Everyone you marry has a weakness
    To marry is to declare a war
    There is no perfect marriage is not a contract, it is permanent
    Every marriage has a different level of success
    God can not give you the complete person you desire
    To marry is to take risk

Every marriage has a price to pay

Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdraw . If you don’t deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.

Everyone you marry has a dark history

No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one’s past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. try to forgive and forget. The past can’t be changed. So Focus on the present and the future!

Every marriage has its own challenges

Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenges. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!

Everyone you marry has a weakness

Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse’s weakness, you can’t get the best out of his/her strength.

To marry is to declare a war

When you marry, you must declare war against the enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battering , Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

There is no perfect marriage

There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back axle and If these parts are not properly maintained, the car will break down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupants to unhealthy circumstances. – Many of us are careless about our marriage… Are you? If you are, please pay attention to your marriage.

Marriage is not a contract, it is permanent

Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes couples stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce

Every marriage has different levels of success

Don’t compare your marriage with someone else ! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.

God cannot give you the complete person you desire

He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mold what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hours but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.

To marry is to take a risk

You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may have married her because she’s slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibilities of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last.

May Our Lord Jesus Christ Give You The Grace And Wisdom To Build A Heaven on Earth Marriage.

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